Here’s an example:
A woman came to me last year, not sure whether or not to continue her relationship.
She was angry, insecure and scared for the future. She said she had no power at all and just waited for her partner to decide everything. She was convinced they “just didn’t fit together” and he would ultimately disappoint her.
After following the L.O.V.E. formula, she realized that the differences between her and her partner weren’t weaknesses but strengths – things to talk about and cherish rather than fight about.
She stopped waiting for her partner to make all the decisions and started making helpful, empowered choices for herself AND the relationship.
And guess what? The second she started leading, her partner followed! The fights stopped, the love and affection increased, and it became easier for them to open up and express their needs and desires together.
It’s really unlike anything you’ve ever experienced before.